Popular Nigerian actor Williams Uchemba has criticized women who request things from men that they themselves cannot afford.
In a post on his official Facebook page, the actor suggested that many women remain single due to a sense of entitlement, which he believes is preventing them from getting married.
He also suggested that women should ask politely rather than making demands when they need something.
“Ladies, take note: there’s a rule that says you shouldn’t order anything in a restaurant that you can’t afford yourself.
There’s a growing mindset among many women in this generation, and it’s a key reason some say they can’t find a husband.
I believe it’s unreasonable to ask a man for things that you couldn’t afford even if you worked for 10 years.”
“It’s a mindset, almost like a spirit. Some of you won’t get married until you confront it, because no man will want to bring you into his home. It’s become a widespread issue where many women now believe it’s normal to make outrageous demands. You need to understand that a man who genuinely cares for you will naturally spend on you.
Why are you asking a man for things like a G-Wagon or an iPhone 15 when you know you can’t afford them? This is driven by greed, influenced by a Jezebel-like spirit, and no man will want to marry you until you address it.”
“There’s a distinction between appealing and requesting. When a wife wants something, she doesn’t make a demand; she appeals to her husband. There’s nothing wrong with appealing, but the issue arises with women who believe they are entitled to it.”
That’s why you see people you believe you’re better than getting married, and you wonder why. They got married because they have character. Do you really think it’s your looks that keep a man? Keep fooling yourself. What you believe keeps a man is only temporary—just wait until after you’ve had children. Don’t focus on superficial things; place value on your character instead.
