Nowadays, distinguishing between a married man and a single man seeking commitment can be challenging. Men can be quite cunning, so staying alert is crucial.
If a man believes revealing his marital status will prevent him from getting what he wants from you, he may choose to hide it.
What are the signs that a man is hiding his marital status?
1. Suspicious social media behavior
A major red flag is how he handles his social media. If his account is private or he avoids following you, it could be a cause for concern.
I once dated someone who refused to follow me on Instagram. When I confronted him about it, he blocked me instead. Later, I used a friend’s account to investigate and discovered he was married.
Although some men may never post pictures of their wives, many will leave subtle clues about their marital status. Keep an eye on his profile—if he avoids social media or keeps his activity minimal, it could be another warning sign.
2. Makes video calls from unusual locations
Another indication is the places and times he calls you. If he never calls you from his home—like his bedroom or living room—but always from his car or outdoors, it could suggest he’s married.
Some married men may call from home when their wives aren’t there, but the lack of consistency is a noticeable clue.
3. Prefers private meetups
He may insist on meeting at hotels or lounges rather than inviting you to his home. If he consistently keeps you away from his house, it’s a significant red flag.
A man who prefers neutral locations for meetings is likely trying to hide you from his family or his true life.
4. Claims he’s going through a separation
Be wary if he tells you he’s “separated” or “in the process of getting a divorce.” Many married men use this excuse to seem available while still being married. If he’s truly ready to move on, he should wait until the divorce is finalized.
It’s also important to remember that some men might even get their wives pregnant while claiming to be in the midst of divorce proceedings.
5. Keeps his phone hidden from you
Lastly, notice how he manages his phone. A man who’s hiding his marital status may keep his phone locked or out of your sight.
I once dated someone who would always move to another room to take calls. If he can’t take certain calls around you or acts overly secretive, it’s likely he’s hiding something—most probably a wife.
Staying observant and trusting your instincts can help you avoid getting involved with someone who isn’t honest about their marital status.
